{"id":7181,"date":"2021-09-01T15:31:44","date_gmt":"2021-09-01T12:31:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/?p=7181"},"modified":"2021-09-01T15:31:50","modified_gmt":"2021-09-01T12:31:50","slug":"aile-ile-cocuk-bakicisinin-isbirligi-neden-onemli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/makale\/aile-ile-cocuk-bakicisinin-isbirligi-neden-onemli\/","title":{"rendered":"Aile \u0130le \u00c7ocuk Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u0130\u015fbirli\u011fi Neden \u00d6nemli?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 se\u00e7imi ailelerin en \u00f6nemli ve zor kararlar\u0131ndan biri. En de\u011ferli varl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 emanet edecekleri ki\u015finin g\u00fcvenilir ve donan\u0131ml\u0131 olmas\u0131 en b\u00fcy\u00fck beklentileri. Di\u011fer taraftan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131ktan sonra aile ile \u00e7ocuk<\/strong> bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fbirli\u011fi i\u00e7inde olmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcyebilmesi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan son derece \u00f6nemli. Yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n devam\u0131nda do\u011fru bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 bulman\u0131n ipu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131, aile ile bak\u0131c\u0131 aras\u0131ndaki i\u015fbirli\u011finin \u00f6nemini bulabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aile \u0130le \u00c7ocuk Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 \u0130\u015fbirli\u011fi \u00c7ocu\u011fun Huzurlu Olmas\u0131n\u0131 Sa\u011flar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7ocuk bak\u0131m\u0131nda aile ile bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n aras\u0131nda i\u015fbirli\u011fi olmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun mutlu ve huzurlu olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar. \u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n tutum olarak anne-baba ile ortak dil geli\u015ftirmesi ve uyum i\u00e7inde olmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun da tutarl\u0131 olmas\u0131 bak\u0131m\u0131ndan \u00f6nemli. Aksi takdirde \u00e7ocu\u011fun akl\u0131 kar\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Kurallar\u0131 anlamakta, belli bir d\u00fczene uyum sa\u011flamakta zorlan\u0131r. Sonu\u00e7 olarak, bu durumu kullanmaya ve i\u015fine geldi\u011fi gibi hareket etmeye ba\u015flayabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"aile
Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z ile i\u015fbirli\u011fi kurmak, ona g\u00fcven duyman\u0131z\u0131 ve kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131zdan kurtulman\u0131z\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z \u0130le \u0130\u015fbirli\u011fi \u0130\u00e7inde Olmak S\u00fcreci Kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla uyum i\u00e7indeyseniz, bu sizin i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck bir avantaj. \u0130\u015fteyken ya da \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun yan\u0131nda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zamanlarda, i\u00e7inizin rahat olmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131za k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ancak sizin ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n i\u015fbirli\u011fine ba\u011fl\u0131. Bu nedenle bak\u0131c\u0131 se\u00e7iminde i\u015fbirli\u011fine a\u00e7\u0131k, pozitif ve g\u00fcven duyabilece\u011finiz ki\u015fiyi bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Bu sayede g\u00fcven duyman\u0131z kolayla\u015f\u0131r ve kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131zdan kolayl\u0131kla kurtulabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uzun S\u00fcreli \u00c7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n S\u0131rr\u0131: Aile \u0130le \u00c7ocuk Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 \u0130\u015fbirli\u011fi <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Aile ile \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 aras\u0131nda uyum oldu\u011fu takdirde uzun y\u0131llar bir arada \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olur. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131n s\u0131k s\u0131k de\u011fi\u015fmesi \u00f6zellikle \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131m\u0131nda uzmanlar taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6nerilmeyen bir durum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6zellikle erken \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6neminde g\u00fcven duygusunun geli\u015fmesi i\u00e7in \u00e7ocukla ilgilenen ki\u015finin sabit olmas\u0131 gerekiyor. S\u0131k bak\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fimi \u00e7ocukta kayg\u0131 ve endi\u015feye neden olurken ayn\u0131 zamanda “bak\u0131c\u0131m benim y\u00fcz\u00fcmden gitti” d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesine de neden olabilir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun bu olumsuz duygulardan etkilenmemesi i\u00e7in i\u015fbirli\u011fi i\u00e7inde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilece\u011finiz ki\u015fiyi bulman\u0131z son derece \u00f6nemli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"aile
\u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ile kuraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u015fbirli\u011fi sayesinde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun geli\u015fimi ile ilgili fikir al\u0131\u015fveri\u015finde bulunabilirsiniz <\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Aile \u0130le \u00c7ocuk Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u0130\u015fbirli\u011fi \u00c7ocu\u011fu Do\u011fru De\u011ferlendirmenizi Sa\u011flar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla ortak noktan\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuz. Onun sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcmesi i\u00e7in birlikte hareket etmeniz kritik \u00f6neme sahip. \u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ile kuraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u015fbirli\u011fi sayesinde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun geli\u015fimi ile ilgili fikir al\u0131\u015fveri\u015finde bulunabilirsiniz. Bu noktada \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 i\u015fe al\u0131rken bu hassasiyetinizi a\u00e7\u0131k bir \u015fekilde ifade etmeniz ve i\u015fbirli\u011fine a\u00e7\u0131k, \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimi bilgisine sahip adaylara yo\u011funla\u015fman\u0131z i\u015finizi kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aile \u0130le \u00c7ocuk Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 Aras\u0131ndaki \u0130\u015fbirli\u011fi \u0130\u015f Motivasyonunu Y\u00fckseltir<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Her i\u015fte oldu\u011fu gibi bak\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k mesle\u011finde de, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ve i\u015fveren aras\u0131ndaki i\u015fbirli\u011fi, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma ortam\u0131ndaki huzur i\u015f motivasyonu ve verimlilik a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan son derece \u00f6nemlidir. Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131 olumlu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131z, onu aileden biri gibi g\u00f6rmeniz daha istekle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 ve size kar\u015f\u0131 pozitif bir tutum tak\u0131nmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar. Bak\u0131m konusunda ortak bir dil geli\u015ftirmeniz, tutarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 yakalaman\u0131z da bu sayede kolayla\u015f\u0131r. Sizinle ve ailenizle uzun zaman ge\u00e7iren bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla aran\u0131zdaki sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fki, onun sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 daha k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede benimsemesinde etkili olur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"aile
Bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n pozitif, ileti\u015fime a\u00e7\u0131k ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131 olmas\u0131 sizinle i\u015fbirli\u011fi kurmas\u0131n\u0131 ve uyum i\u00e7inde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u0130\u015fbirli\u011fi Kurabildi\u011finiz Bak\u0131c\u0131 \u0130le Sorunlar\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6zmeniz Kolayd\u0131r<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla zaman zaman anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar ya\u015fayabilirsiniz. \u00d6zellikle ilk zamanlar birbirinize al\u0131\u015fma, evinizin d\u00fczenine uyum sa\u011flama s\u00fcrecinde ya\u015fanabilecek baz\u0131 sorunlar\u0131 i\u015fbirli\u011fine a\u00e7\u0131k, ileti\u015fim g\u00fcc\u00fc kuvvetli \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlarla \u00e7\u00f6zmeniz daha kolayd\u0131r. Sizin de uzla\u015fmac\u0131 olman\u0131z olas\u0131 problemleri b\u00fcy\u00fcmeden \u00e7\u00f6zmeniz, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla yeni bak\u0131c\u0131 aray\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan kurtulman\u0131z anlam\u0131na gelir. Bu nedenle hem bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n hem de sizin uyumlu olman\u0131z, birbirinizi anlayabilmeniz son derece \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u0130leti\u015fime A\u00e7\u0131k Olmas\u0131 \u0130\u015fbirli\u011fi Kurman\u0131z\u0131 Kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n i\u015fbirli\u011fi kurmaya a\u00e7\u0131k olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamak istiyorsan\u0131z, onun ki\u015filik \u00f6zelliklerini \u00f6\u011frenmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. \u0130lk olarak nas\u0131l ileti\u015fim kurdu\u011funu g\u00f6zlemleyin. Pozitif bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na sahip, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131 ki\u015filerle anla\u015fman\u0131z ve ortak bir yol bulman\u0131z daha kolay olur. Bunu anlamak i\u00e7in ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeden itibaren sordu\u011funuz sorularla kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyi tan\u0131maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n beden dili, jest ve mimikleri, kendini ifade etme bi\u00e7imi size pek \u00e7ok ipucu verir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Sa\u011fl\u0131k Durumunu \u00d6\u011frenin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bedenen ve ruhen sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 oldu\u011fundan emin olun. Bu pek \u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131dan \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r. \u00d6ncelikle sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ki\u015fi, sizinle uzun s\u00fcreli \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir. S\u0131k s\u0131k bak\u0131c\u0131 aramak zorunda kalmazs\u0131n\u0131z. Kronik ve bula\u015f\u0131c\u0131 rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olan birisi sizin ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in g\u00fcvenlik anlam\u0131nda da tehdit olu\u015fturur. Di\u011fer yandan psikolojik olarak depresif, \u00f6fke kontrol\u00fc olmayan ki\u015filerle hem sizin i\u015fbirli\u011fi kurman\u0131z zordur. Hem de \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimi bak\u0131m\u0131ndan farkl\u0131 sorunlar ya\u015fanabilir. Bu nedenle ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeden itibaren bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131, kendini ifade etme \u015feklini, beden dilini, jest ve mimiklerini g\u00f6zlemleyin. \u0130yi bir g\u00f6zlemle bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ki\u015fili\u011fi ve psikolojisi hakk\u0131nda pek \u00e7ok ipucu yakalayabilirsiniz. Di\u011fer yandan sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 biri sizinle uzun s\u00fcreli \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir ve s\u0131k s\u0131k bak\u0131c\u0131 aramak durumunda kalmazs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"aile
Bedensel ve psikolojik olarak sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ki\u015filer, hem uzun s\u00fcreli sizinle \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar hem de i\u015fbirli\u011fi kurman\u0131z daha kolay olur<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Donan\u0131ml\u0131 Bir Bak\u0131c\u0131 \u0130le \u0130\u015fbirli\u011fi Kurman\u0131z Daha Kolayd\u0131r<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n donan\u0131ml\u0131 ve profesyonel olmas\u0131, ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmesi bak\u0131m\u0131ndan \u00f6nemlidir. Bu sayede sizin beklentilerinizi anlamas\u0131 da kolayla\u015f\u0131r. Bu noktada iyi bir bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n sahip olmas\u0131 gereken ki\u015filik \u00f6zelliklerini ve mesleki yeterlili\u011fini bilmeniz gerekir. Genel olarak;<\/p>\n\n\n\n