{"id":6800,"date":"2020-11-05T09:20:00","date_gmt":"2020-11-05T06:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/?p=6800"},"modified":"2020-11-10T20:43:20","modified_gmt":"2020-11-10T17:43:20","slug":"cocuklarda-inatcilik-nasil-onlenir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/makale\/cocuklarda-inatcilik-nasil-onlenir\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklarda \u0130nat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k Nas\u0131l \u00d6nlenir?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u00d6zellikle erken \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6neminde inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k aileleri en \u00e7ok zorlayan konular\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda gelir. \u0130nat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k, \u00e7ocu\u011fun anlaml\u0131 bir nedeni olmamas\u0131na ra\u011fmen s\u00f6ylenen her s\u00f6ze diren\u00e7 g\u00f6stermesi \u015feklinde tan\u0131mlanabilir. <strong>\u00c7ocuklarda inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k <\/strong>g\u00f6r\u00fclmesinin pek \u00e7ok sebebi olabilir ancak yeti\u015fkinin yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 bu direncin kal\u0131c\u0131 olup olmamas\u0131n\u0131 belirler. Bu nedenle aile ve bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n bu konu hakk\u0131nda bilgi sahibi olmas\u0131 ve s\u00fcreci do\u011fru \u015fekilde y\u00f6netmesi son derece \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>\u00c7ocuklarda \u0130nat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k Neden Olu\u015fur?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n pek \u00e7ok nedeni olabilir. Bazen d\u00f6nemsel olarak da \u00e7ocuk bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6sterebilir. \u00d6rne\u011fin; 2 ya\u015f sendromu olarak bilinen bu d\u00f6nemde \u00e7ocuk ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kazanmak, bireyselli\u011fini kan\u0131tlamak ad\u0131na sizin s\u00f6ylediklerinizin tersini yapma e\u011filimindedir. Bu tip zamanlarda bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n ge\u00e7ici oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmenizde fayda var. Bunun yan\u0131 s\u0131ra;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>\u00c7ocu\u011fun mizac\u0131,<\/li><li> Fizyolojik rahats\u0131zl\u0131klar,<\/li><li> Anne-babaya tepki,<\/li><li> Yeti\u015fkinin yanl\u0131\u015f tutumu,<\/li><li> Tuvalet e\u011fitiminin yanl\u0131\u015f zaman ve \u015fekilde verilmesi,<\/li><li> Karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131,<\/li><li> Geli\u015fimsel \u00f6zellikler inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fclmesinde etkilidir. <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/evdekibakicimstorage.blob.core.windows.net\/wordpress\/2020\/10\/portrait-upset-cute-little-kid_171337-7113.jpg\" alt=\"\u00e7ocuklarda inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k\" class=\"wp-image-6713\" width=\"589\" height=\"392\"\/><figcaption><strong>\u00c7ocuklarda inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k duygusal geli\u015fimin bir sonucu olarak veya davran\u0131\u015f problemi \u015feklinde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kabilir<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2>\u00c7ocuklarda \u0130nat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k Ne Zaman Sorundur?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuklarda g\u00f6r\u00fclen inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00f6zellikle 2-6 ya\u015f d\u00f6neminde duygusal geli\u015fimin bir sonucu oldu\u011fu kabul edilir. Ancak ailenin veya bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 nedeniyle bu durum davran\u0131\u015fsal bir probleme d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. Bu nedenle \u00f6ncelikle \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n normal bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. \u00c7ocuklarda 1 ya\u015ftan itibaren inatla\u015fma davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir. Burada \u00e7ocu\u011fun amac\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakt\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla sizin ayn\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flara hep benzer tepkiler vermeniz, ona anlay\u0131\u015fla ve sevgiyle yakla\u015fman\u0131z, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bu geli\u015fimsel s\u00fcreci sorunsuz atlatmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yine 2-2,5 ya\u015f civar\u0131 kritik bir d\u00f6nemdir. \u201cBa\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k \u00e7abas\u0131\u201d i\u00e7inde olan \u00e7ocu\u011funuza kar\u015f\u0131 yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z en iyi \u015fey sabretmektir. 6 ya\u015f ve ergenlik d\u00f6nemleri de yine \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sizinle s\u0131k\u00e7a inatla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve  geli\u015fimsel olarak normal kabul edilen d\u00f6nemlerdir. \u00d6nemli olan bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te \u00e7ocu\u011funuzdan sevginizi esirgemeyerek, ona anlay\u0131\u015fla yakla\u015farak bu kritik geli\u015fim evrelerini sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u015fekilde atlatmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmakt\u0131r. Aksi takdirde inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n kal\u0131c\u0131 bir davran\u0131\u015f problemine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesi ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>\u00c7ocuklarda \u0130nat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k Kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda Neler Yap\u0131lmal\u0131?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzda inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n kal\u0131c\u0131 hale d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmemesi sizin ve bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Do\u011fru davran\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k yerini kararl\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flara b\u0131rak\u0131r. Bu nedenle \u00f6ncelikle \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda neler yapman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/evdekibakicimstorage.blob.core.windows.net\/wordpress\/2019\/10\/pexels-photo-2505132-867x480.jpg\" alt=\"\u00e7ocuklarda inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k\" class=\"wp-image-3847\" width=\"590\" height=\"327\"\/><figcaption><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun inat etti\u011fi \u015feyler kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda sakinli\u011finizi koruyarak tutarl\u0131 ve kararl\u0131 davranman\u0131z sonu\u00e7 alman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2>1- Derin Nefes Al\u0131n ve Sakinli\u011finizi Koruyun  <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6zellikle 2-3 ya\u015flar\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar her \u015feye hay\u0131r deme potansiyeline sahiptirler. Uyumsuz ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 inat\u00e7\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar sergileyebilirler.  Bu anne-baba olarak sizi ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlenen ki\u015fiyi zorlayabilir. Ancak \u00f6ncelikle bunun geli\u015fimsel bir d\u00f6nem oldu\u011funu unutmay\u0131n. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz b\u00fcy\u00fcyor ve bunu kan\u0131tlama ihtiyac\u0131 duyuyor. Bu ge\u00e7ici s\u00fcre\u00e7te sizin ona kar\u015f\u0131 sakin ve sab\u0131rl\u0131 olman\u0131z, onu \u00e7ok rahatlat\u0131r. Anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hisseder ve sizinle daha az \u00e7at\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bu nedenle zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hissetti\u011finizde sakinli\u011finizi koruman\u0131za yard\u0131m edecek y\u00f6ntemler ke\u015ffedin. Nefes egzersizi, \u0131l\u0131k bir du\u015f, biraz yaln\u0131z kalmak gibi sizi rahatlatacak \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmleri \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 sizi \u00e7ok zorlad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda tercih edebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>2- Olumlu Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na Odaklanmak \u00c7ocuklarda \u0130nat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k Sorununu Azalt\u0131r <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar miza\u00e7lar\u0131 gere\u011fi inat\u00e7\u0131d\u0131r. Bu durumda i\u015finiz biraz daha zordur. Ancak yine de \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun olumlu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na odaklanarak, onu pozitif davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 i\u00e7in takdir ederek, inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 daha az seviyeye indirebilirsiniz. Kabul g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, takdir edildi\u011fini g\u00f6ren \u00e7ocuk daha uzla\u015fmac\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>3- A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 Otoriter veya Bask\u0131c\u0131 Tutum \u0130nat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 Peki\u015ftirir <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bazen \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda kendinizi \u00e7aresiz hissedebilirsiniz ve onunla s\u0131k s\u0131k \u00e7at\u0131\u015fabilirsiniz. Ancak bunun sorunu daha da b\u00fcy\u00fctece\u011fini unutmay\u0131n. Ailelerin d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yan\u0131lg\u0131lar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda otoriter bir yakla\u015f\u0131mla, \u00e7ocu\u011fun bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi gelir. \u00c7ocu\u011fa ceza vermek, her dedi\u011fini \u201chay\u0131r\u201d diyerek reddetmek sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zmek yerine b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr hatta peki\u015fmesine yol a\u00e7ar. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 bask\u0131 ve otorite \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendisini \u00e7ok s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ve bask\u0131lanm\u0131\u015f hissetmesine neden olur. Bu da \u00e7ocukta inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k ve \u00f6fke patlamas\u0131 olarak yans\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca \u00e7ocu\u011funuz sizin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 model al\u0131r. Siz onu s\u0131k s\u0131k hay\u0131r diyerek reddederseniz, onun size cevab\u0131 hay\u0131r olur. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun \u00e7o\u011funlukla sizin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ayna gibi yans\u0131taca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 unutmay\u0131n. Bu nedenle bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ve sizin temel anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z pozitif disiplin olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza se\u00e7enek sunmak, hay\u0131r dedi\u011finizde nedenini a\u00e7\u0131klamak da i\u015fe yarayan yollardand\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/evdekibakicimstorage.blob.core.windows.net\/wordpress\/2019\/08\/photo-1475609471617-0ef53b59cff5-400x480.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3431\" width=\"588\" height=\"706\"\/><figcaption><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza kar\u015f\u0131 a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 otoriter veya esnek olman\u0131z onun inat\u00e7\u0131 tutumunu artt\u0131r\u0131r<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2>4- Her \u015eeye &#8220;Evet&#8221; Demek \u00c7ocuklarda \u0130nat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k Problemini Artt\u0131r\u0131r<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 peki\u015ftiren kelimelerden biri s\u0131k s\u0131k isteklerini hay\u0131r diyerek reddetmektir. Ancak her istedi\u011fine evet demeniz de ayn\u0131 etkiyi yarat\u0131r. Bazen aileler \u00e7ocukla inatla\u015fmamak, zorda kalmamak amac\u0131yla ne istese yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Ancak bu \u00e7ocu\u011fun doyumsuz olmas\u0131na, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey i\u00e7in \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermemesine ve en ufak durumda bile b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6fke patlamalar\u0131na sebep olur. Ailenin a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kat\u0131 tutum gibi fazla esnek yakla\u015f\u0131mdan da uzak durmas\u0131 bu a\u00e7\u0131dan son derece \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>5- Tutarl\u0131 Davran\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuklarda inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fclmesinin nedenlerinden biri de yeti\u015fkinlerin tutars\u0131z davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131d\u0131r. Anne-baba ve bak\u0131c\u0131 aras\u0131nda uyum ve i\u015fbirli\u011fi olmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun olumlu ki\u015filik geli\u015fiminde olduk\u00e7a etkilidir. Annenin hay\u0131r dedi\u011fi bir \u015feye bak\u0131c\u0131 evet diyorsa, \u00e7ocu\u011fun akl\u0131 kar\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Kurallar\u0131n esnek oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 zorlamaya ba\u015flar. A\u011flama, inatla\u015fma, \u00f6fke patlamalar\u0131 da en \u00e7ok bu tip durumlarda ya\u015fan\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk istedi\u011fi \u015fey i\u00e7in tutturdu\u011funda anne-baba veya bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 ikna edebilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Bu nedenle bak\u0131m\u0131nda rol alan herkesin \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 kararl\u0131, tutarl\u0131 ve ayn\u0131 dili kullanmas\u0131 inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00f6nlenmesinde b\u00fcy\u00fck fayda sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>6- Kurallar\u0131 Birlikte Belirleyin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza kar\u015f\u0131 tutarl\u0131 olman\u0131z\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra kurallar konusunda da net olman\u0131z inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 azaltman\u0131zda etkilidir. Di\u011fer taraftan kurallar\u0131n az say\u0131da ve anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r olmas\u0131, \u00e7ocukla birlikte netle\u015ftirilmesi ve \u00f6zellikle neden gerekli oldu\u011funun a\u00e7\u0131klanmas\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir. \u00d6rne\u011fin; bu prize dokunmak yasak demek \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in \u00e7ok soyuttur ve muhtemelen \u00e7ocuk bu kural\u0131 delmek i\u00e7in u\u011fra\u015facakt\u0131r. Bunun yerine bu prize dokunmuyoruz, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc elektrikli \u015feyler kazalara neden olabilir, can\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ac\u0131tabilir. Kendimizi korumak i\u00e7in dokunmamal\u0131y\u0131z gibi sebebini de s\u00f6yledi\u011finizde \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in daha anlaml\u0131 olur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/evdekibakicimstorage.blob.core.windows.net\/wordpress\/2020\/10\/pexels-photo-1231215-1170x480.jpeg\" alt=\"\u00e7ocuklarda inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k\" class=\"wp-image-6761\" width=\"592\" height=\"242\"\/><figcaption> <strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 i\u00e7in onu su\u00e7lamak, ba\u015fka \u00e7ocuklarla k\u0131yaslamak onun geli\u015fimine zarar verir <\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2>7- \u00c7ocu\u011funuzu Su\u00e7lamay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 i\u00e7in onu su\u00e7lamak, ba\u015fka \u00e7ocuklarla k\u0131yaslamak onun geli\u015fimine zarar verir. Ayr\u0131ca sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zmek yerine b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr. Bunun yerine onu dinleyin, duygular\u0131n\u0131, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n sebeplerini anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Empati i\u00e7eren c\u00fcmleler kurun. \u00d6rne\u011fin;  \u201c\u015fu an iste\u011fin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6fkelisin, anl\u0131yorum\u201d deyin. Onun duygusunu anlamak ve kabul etmek, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 onaylad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anlam\u0131na gelmez. Tam tersi sizin olumlu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131z ona g\u00fcven verir ve sizinle aras\u0131ndaki ba\u011f\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir. Bu sayede inat, \u00f6fke gibi olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flara \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulmak daha kolay olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>8- \u00c7ocu\u011funuzu &#8220;\u0130nat\u00e7\u0131&#8221; Olarak Etiketlemeyin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocukta inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 peki\u015ftiren davran\u0131\u015flardan biri de \u00e7ocu\u011fun bu \u015fekilde etiketlenmesidir. S\u00fcrekli olarak \u201cne inat\u00e7\u0131 \u00e7ocuksun\u201d \u015feklinde tan\u0131mlanan \u00e7ocuk bir s\u00fcre sonra bunu de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaz. O da kendini bu \u015fekilde tan\u0131mlar. Bu nedenle \u00e7ocuk sizinle inatla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onu yarg\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 ve su\u00e7lay\u0131c\u0131 ifadelerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n. Siz de \u00f6fkenize kap\u0131lmay\u0131n. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 kontrol etmekte zorlanabilirsiniz. Ancak kendinizi kontrol etmek sizin elinizde. Bu nedenle \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun tavr\u0131 ne olursa olsun, siz sakin ve kararl\u0131 tutumunuzu devam ettirin. Asla \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na onunla inatla\u015farak kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermeyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>\u00c7ocuklarda \u0130nat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 Azaltmak \u0130\u00e7in \u00c7ocuk Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z Neler Yapabilir? <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuklarda ki\u015fili\u011fin geli\u015fiminde onunla neredeyse t\u00fcm g\u00fcn birlikte olan \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n rol\u00fc \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr. Bu nedenle bak\u0131c\u0131 se\u00e7iminde titiz ve \u00f6zenli davranman\u0131z gerekir. \u00c7ocuk geli\u015fimi e\u011fitimi alm\u0131\u015f ya da bilgi sahibi ki\u015filer \u00f6ncelikli tercihiniz olabilir. Bu sayede \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun baz\u0131 d\u00f6nemlerde neden inatla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fru yorumlayan ve nas\u0131l davranmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini bilen biri ile bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 daha kolay s\u00f6nd\u00fcrebilirsiniz. Yine miza\u00e7 olarak sakin, sab\u0131rl\u0131, anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc ve \u015fefkatli biri \u00e7ocu\u011fun kriz anlar\u0131n\u0131 daha iyi y\u00f6netebilir. \u00d6fke kontrol\u00fc olmayan, \u00e7abuk sinirlenen dad\u0131 ise  \u00e7ocu\u011funuza do\u011fru model olamaz. Ayr\u0131ca  \u00e7ocukta olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda gerekli sabr\u0131 g\u00f6stermekte zorlan\u0131r ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 tepki verebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Kritik D\u00f6nemler Profesyonel Bak\u0131c\u0131 \u0130le Sorunsuz Atlat\u0131l\u0131r<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Beslenme al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve tuvalet e\u011fitimi gibi kritik d\u00f6nemlerde bask\u0131c\u0131 olmak, \u00e7ocuk haz\u0131r olmadan bu e\u011fitimi vermeye kalkmak, inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 tetikler ve farkl\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f problemleri olu\u015fmas\u0131na neden olabilir. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7ilik, \u00e7ocu\u011fu etiketleyen ve yapamad\u0131klar\u0131na odaklanan  bir tutum \u00e7ocu\u011fun diren\u00e7 g\u00f6stermesine yol a\u00e7ar. Bu nedenle donan\u0131ml\u0131 ve deneyimli bir \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak her zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck avantaj sa\u011flar. S\u00fcre\u00e7lerin kolay atlat\u0131lmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Di\u011fer taraftan profesyonel bir \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 sizinle i\u015fbirli\u011fi i\u00e7inde hareket eder. Bu sayede \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131nda her anlamda d\u00fczen ve s\u00fcreklilik olur, akl\u0131 kar\u0131\u015fmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>EvdekiBak\u0131c\u0131m \u0130le Profesyonel \u00c7ocuk Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 Aray\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z Son Bulsun <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fine hakim olmas\u0131, hem \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fimi hem de sizin d\u00fczeninizi oturtabilmeniz bak\u0131m\u0131ndan son derece \u00f6nemlidir. Bu nedenle do\u011fru bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 bulma i\u015fini \u015fansa b\u0131rakmay\u0131n. Sekt\u00f6rde lider konumda olan ve 2015 y\u0131l\u0131ndan bu yana evde bak\u0131m hizmetleri alan\u0131nda 60.000\u2019den fazla aileye hizmet sunan <a href=\"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/\">EvdekiBak\u0131c\u0131m<\/a> ile tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Siz arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fiyi bize anlat\u0131n, biz de en k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede kriterlerinize uygun \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 sizlerle bulu\u015ftural\u0131m.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00d6zellikle erken \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6neminde inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k aileleri en \u00e7ok zorlayan konular\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda gelir. \u0130nat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k, \u00e7ocu\u011fun anlaml\u0131 bir nedeni olmamas\u0131na ra\u011fmen s\u00f6ylenen her s\u00f6ze diren\u00e7 g\u00f6stermesi \u015feklinde tan\u0131mlanabilir. \u00c7ocuklarda inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fclmesinin pek&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2777,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6800"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6800"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6800\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6829,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6800\/revisions\/6829"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2777"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6800"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6800"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6800"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}