{"id":6358,"date":"2020-08-27T10:47:40","date_gmt":"2020-08-27T07:47:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/?p=6358"},"modified":"2020-08-27T10:47:46","modified_gmt":"2020-08-27T07:47:46","slug":"cocugunuzu-bakiciya-alistirmak-icin-8-oneri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/makale\/cocugunuzu-bakiciya-alistirmak-icin-8-oneri\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu Bak\u0131c\u0131ya Al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak \u0130\u00e7in 8 \u00d6neri"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in ideal bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 bulmak kadar onun bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 benimsemesi ve ba\u011f kurabilmesi de son derece \u00f6nemlidir. Bu sayede, i\u015f hayat\u0131n\u0131za soru i\u015faretleriniz olmadan rahat\u00e7a d\u00f6nebilirsiniz. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz ile ilgili kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z olmaz. Bu nedenle \u00e7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015fiyi bulman\u0131z ve <strong>\u00e7ocu\u011funuzu bak\u0131c\u0131ya al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak<\/strong> i\u00e7in neler yapman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini bilmeniz gerekir. Bu ve daha fazlas\u0131 ile ilgili pek \u00e7ok ipucunu yaz\u0131m\u0131zda bulabilir, keyifli bir s\u00fcrece ad\u0131m atabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu Bak\u0131c\u0131ya Al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak Neden \u00d6nemli?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131na al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131, sizin de i\u00e7iniz rahat bir \u015fekilde ondan ayr\u0131lman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar. Bu nedenle bak\u0131c\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz andan itibaren \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu bu fikre al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak i\u00e7in do\u011fru ad\u0131mlar atman\u0131z son derece \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7ok dramatize etmeden, detaya girmeden, bu durumun sizin i\u00e7in \u00f6nemini \u00e7ok fazla vurgulamadan \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla bu fikri payla\u015farak i\u015fe ba\u015flayabilirsiniz. Sizin tutumunuzun ve duygu durumunuzun \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu etkileyece\u011fini unutmay\u0131n. Bunun yan\u0131 s\u0131ra;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun mizac\u0131na ve geli\u015fimine uygun do\u011fru bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 bulmak,<\/li><li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza kar\u015f\u0131 bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 ve sab\u0131rl\u0131 davranmak,<\/li><li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun mizac\u0131, sevdi\u011fi-sevmedi\u011fi \u015feyler gibi pek \u00e7ok bilgiyi bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla \u00f6ncesinde payla\u015fmak,<\/li><li>Tan\u0131\u015fma an\u0131n\u0131 planlamak,<\/li><li>Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z i\u015fe ba\u015flad\u0131ktan sonra ilk 1 hafta evinizde e\u015flik etmek,<\/li><li>Ad\u0131m ad\u0131m bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmak, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131za al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2>1- \u00c7ocu\u011funuza Bak\u0131c\u0131 Fikrinizden Bahsedin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Kendinize zaman ay\u0131rmak, i\u015f hayat\u0131na d\u00f6nmek, yo\u011funlu\u011funuzu azaltmak sebep ne olursa olsun bir bak\u0131c\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, bunu anlayaca\u011f\u0131 bir dille (ya\u015f\u0131na uygun olarak) \u00e7ocu\u011funuza a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131n.  Bu durum onda kayg\u0131 uyand\u0131rabilir. Bu do\u011fal bir durumdur. S\u00fcreci k\u0131saca a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131n. Siz i\u015fteyken ya da yan\u0131nda de\u011filken, yine g\u00fcvende olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ile keyifli zaman ge\u00e7irece\u011fini anlat\u0131n. Tabi sizin geri d\u00f6nece\u011finizi de ifade edin. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza bu ayr\u0131l\u0131k s\u00fcrecini \u00e7ok dramatize etmeden, d\u00fczeninin de\u011fi\u015fmeyece\u011fini vurgulayarak a\u00e7\u0131klaman\u0131z i\u015fleri sizin a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131zdan kolayla\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/evdekibakicimstorage.blob.core.windows.net\/wordpress\/2019\/11\/pexels-photo-755049.jpg\" alt=\"\u00e7ocu\u011funuzu bak\u0131c\u0131ya al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak\" class=\"wp-image-4190\" width=\"588\" height=\"392\"\/><figcaption><strong>Ki\u015fisel \u00f6zellikleri ve mesleki yeterlili\u011fi bak\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k i\u00e7in uygun olan ki\u015filer \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla nas\u0131l ba\u011f kuraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilir ve onunla k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede ba\u011f kurmay\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131r<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2>2- \u00c7ocu\u011funuzu Bak\u0131c\u0131ya Al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak \u0130\u00e7in Do\u011fru Bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 Belirleyin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Donan\u0131ml\u0131, deneyimli bir bak\u0131c\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuza nas\u0131l yakla\u015fmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini bilir. Bu sayede onunla daha kolay ba\u011f kurar. Bu nedenle \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu bak\u0131c\u0131ya al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak i\u00e7in do\u011fru bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 bulman\u0131z son derece \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 seven, ilgili, sakin, sab\u0131rl\u0131, g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc, pozitif, \u015fefkatli, ileti\u015fime a\u00e7\u0131k ki\u015filer genellikle bu i\u015f i\u00e7in ideal ki\u015filerdir. Di\u011fer taraftan \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimi bilgisine sahip, oyunun \u00f6nemine inanan adaylar da \u00e7ocu\u011funuza kendini daha kolay kabul ettirecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>3- \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun Duygular\u0131n\u0131 Anlay\u0131\u015fla Kar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun sizden ayr\u0131lmak istemeyebilir. \u00d6fkeli, h\u0131r\u00e7\u0131n ya da \u00e7ok kayg\u0131l\u0131 tepkiler verebilir. Bu durumda sab\u0131rl\u0131 olun ve ona anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6sterin. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun bu tepkileri terk edilme korkusundan kaynaklanabilir. S\u0131k s\u0131k ona sar\u0131l\u0131n ve onu sevdi\u011finizi ifade edin. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun korku ve kayg\u0131lar\u0131ndan kurutulmas\u0131n\u0131n, bak\u0131c\u0131ya al\u0131\u015fma s\u00fcrecini kolayla\u015ft\u0131raca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>4-Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131za \u00c7ocu\u011funuz Hakk\u0131nda Bilgi Verin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu bak\u0131c\u0131ya al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131zda onun ki\u015fili\u011fi, al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemli rol oynayacakt\u0131r. Bu nedenle bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmenizde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun ki\u015fisel \u00f6zelliklerini, mizac\u0131n\u0131, sevdi\u011fi ve sevmedi\u011fi \u015feyleri, rutinlerini mutlaka payla\u015f\u0131n. Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu ne kadar iyi tan\u0131rsa, o kadar kolay ileti\u015fim kurar. Ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00e7ocu\u011funuza kar\u015f\u0131 nas\u0131l davranmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini de bilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/evdekibakicimstorage.blob.core.windows.net\/wordpress\/2019\/10\/pexels-photo-1257105.jpeg\" alt=\"\u00e7ocu\u011funuzu bak\u0131c\u0131ya al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak\" class=\"wp-image-4004\" width=\"589\" height=\"392\"\/><figcaption> <strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz ve bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n tan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131nda siz de ortamda bulunun ve ilk bulu\u015fmada \u00e7ocu\u011funuz haz\u0131r hissetmiyorsa, ortamdan ayr\u0131lmay\u0131n <\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2>5- \u00c7ocu\u011funuzu Bak\u0131c\u0131ya Al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak \u0130\u00e7in Tan\u0131\u015fma Ortam\u0131n\u0131 Haz\u0131rlay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzla bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ilk kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma an\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Bu nedenle bu an\u0131 planlaman\u0131z gerekir. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz ve bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n tan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131nda siz de ortamda bulunun ve ilk bulu\u015fmada \u00e7ocu\u011funuz haz\u0131r hissetmiyorsa, ortamdan ayr\u0131lmay\u0131n. Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131 pozitif olun, sohbet edin. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz sizi g\u00f6zlemleyecek ve sizin g\u00fcven duydu\u011funuz ki\u015fiye daha kolay al\u0131\u015facakt\u0131r.  Bunun yan\u0131 s\u0131ra \u00f6ncesinde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun ho\u015funa gidecek ufak bir hediye alabilir ve bu hediyenin bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131ndan geldi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyebilirsiniz. Ufak s\u00fcrprizler \u00e7ocu\u011funuzda merak uyand\u0131r\u0131r ve ilk kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma i\u00e7in daha hevesli olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>6- Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z \u0130\u015fe Ba\u015flad\u0131ktan Sonra Bir S\u00fcre E\u015flik Edin<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Her \u00e7ocu\u011fun mizac\u0131 farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar sosyal ve d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fckt\u00fcr. De\u011fi\u015fimlere \u00e7abuk ayak uydururlar. Baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar ise, daha i\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fckt\u00fcr. Zaman i\u00e7inde tan\u0131mad\u0131klar\u0131 ki\u015filerle ileti\u015fim kurmay\u0131 tercih edebilirler. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun mizac\u0131 bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131na al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 etkileyecek etkenlerin ba\u015f\u0131nda gelir. Bu nedenle, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun ki\u015fisel \u00f6zelliklerini de g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurun ve bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z i\u015fe ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bir s\u00fcre onlara e\u015flik edin. \u00d6zellikle ilk 1 hafta evde olman\u0131z, her iki taraf\u0131n da birbirine al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Ayn\u0131 zamanda bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z da evinizin d\u00fczenini \u00f6\u011frenmesi kolayla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>7- Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla \u00c7ocu\u011funuzu Ad\u0131m Ad\u0131m Yaln\u0131z B\u0131rak\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz sizden ayr\u0131lmak istemiyorsa, acele etmeyin. \u0130lk 1 haftal\u0131k s\u00fcreci bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla birlikte ge\u00e7irin ve bu zaman diliminde de k\u0131sa s\u00fcrelerle \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ile yaln\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131n. \u00d6rne\u011fin; \u00e7ocu\u011funuz bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ile birlikteyken markete gidin. Bir sonraki g\u00fcn birka\u00e7 saatli\u011fine evden ayr\u0131l\u0131n. Bu \u015fekilde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bak\u0131c\u0131ya al\u0131\u015fma s\u00fcrecini kolayla\u015ft\u0131rabilirsiniz. Ancak evden ayr\u0131l\u0131rken mutlaka \u00e7ocu\u011funuza bilgi verin. Ka\u00e7arak, habersizce evden ayr\u0131lman\u0131z onun g\u00fcvenini sarsacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/evdekibakicimstorage.blob.core.windows.net\/wordpress\/2019\/10\/photo-1551719664-544e108d4f4b-632x480.jpg\" alt=\"\u00e7ocu\u011funuzu bak\u0131c\u0131ya al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak\" class=\"wp-image-3820\" width=\"593\" height=\"450\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/photo-1551719664-544e108d4f4b-632x480.jpg 632w, https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/photo-1551719664-544e108d4f4b-100x75.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 593px) 100vw, 593px\" \/><figcaption><strong>Sizin bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z ile ilgili kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu etkileyece\u011fini unutmay\u0131n ve sizin bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131na al\u0131\u015fma s\u00fcreci \u00fczerinde etkili olacakt\u0131r<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2>8- Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla \u0130lgili Kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131zdan Kurtulun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Anne babalar baz\u0131 kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda konu\u015fmasalar bile beden dilleri ve duygular\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan kolayl\u0131kla hissedilir. Bu nedenle \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde \u00f6ncelikle sizin kayg\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kontrol etmeniz gerekir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocu\u011funuz sizi g\u00f6zlemleyerek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ile ilgili bir fikir edinecektir. Kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131zdan kurutulmak i\u00e7in bak\u0131c\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ailelerin bu konudaki geri d\u00f6n\u00fctlerini \u00f6\u011frenebilirsiniz. Bunun yan\u0131 s\u0131ra bak\u0131c\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131n sa\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131 kolayl\u0131klar\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rmak da tedirginli\u011finizi azaltarak, bak\u0131c\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma fikrini benimsemenizi sa\u011flayabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun Bak\u0131m\u0131 ve Geli\u015fiminde Rol Oynar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Donan\u0131ml\u0131 ve profesyonel bir bak\u0131c\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bak\u0131m\u0131 kadar geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli biri olur. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun geli\u015fimsel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131ndad\u0131r ve gerekli ortam\u0131 ona sunar. Bunun yan\u0131 s\u0131ra, kaliteli zaman ge\u00e7irmesi i\u00e7in gerekli plan ve program\u0131 olu\u015fturur. \u0130yi bir bak\u0131c\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun gelece\u011fi i\u00e7in iyi bir yat\u0131r\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>EvdekiBak\u0131c\u0131m \u0130le Bak\u0131c\u0131 Aray\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z Son Bulsun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu bak\u0131c\u0131 fikrine al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak i\u00e7in \u00f6ncelikli olarak bu fikri siz benimsemeli ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in do\u011fru bak\u0131c\u0131 kriterlerinizi belirlemelisiniz. \u0130yi ve donan\u0131ml\u0131 bir bak\u0131c\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuza nas\u0131l yakla\u015fmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini bilir. Bu nedenle profesyonel bir destek alman\u0131z sizin i\u00e7in ideal olan\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzu bak\u0131c\u0131 fikrine al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak i\u00e7in, ona uygun bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 bulman\u0131zda <a href=\"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/\">EvdekiBak\u0131c\u0131m<\/a> ailesi olarak sizin yan\u0131n\u0131zda olmaktan mutluluk duyaca\u011f\u0131z. Sitemizi ziyaret ederek, aileniz i\u00e7in do\u011fru bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 hemen bulabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in ideal bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 bulmak kadar onun bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 benimsemesi ve ba\u011f kurabilmesi de son derece \u00f6nemlidir. 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