{"id":4655,"date":"2020-01-27T12:03:58","date_gmt":"2020-01-27T09:03:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/?p=4655"},"modified":"2020-01-27T12:04:05","modified_gmt":"2020-01-27T09:04:05","slug":"bakici-adayiniz-hakkinda-bilmeniz-gerekenler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/makale\/bakici-adayiniz-hakkinda-bilmeniz-gerekenler\/","title":{"rendered":"Bak\u0131c\u0131 Aday\u0131n\u0131z Hakk\u0131nda Bilmeniz Gerekenler"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birine emanet etmek zor i\u015f. Bir de sosyal medyada, yaz\u0131l\u0131 ve g\u00f6rsel bas\u0131nda duydu\u011funuz haberleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcnce kayg\u0131 duyman\u0131z son derece do\u011fal. Endi\u015felerinizden kurtulmak, rahat bir \u015fekilde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzdan ayr\u0131lmak g\u00fcvenilir ve do\u011fru bak\u0131c\u0131ya ula\u015fman\u0131zla m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. Bunun i\u00e7in bak\u0131c\u0131 bulma konusunda titiz davranman\u0131z ve bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda<\/strong> bilmeniz gerekenler konusunda fikir sahibi olman\u0131z da i\u015finizi kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n devam\u0131nda bak\u0131c\u0131 se\u00e7iminde dikkat etmeniz gerekenler, ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmenin p\u00fcf noktalar\u0131 ve bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda karar vermenizi kolayla\u015ft\u0131racak bilgiler hakk\u0131ndaki t\u00fcm detaylar\u0131 okuyabilirsiniz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131 Aday\u0131n\u0131z Hakk\u0131nda Bilmeniz Gerekenler Nelerdir?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ki\u015fili\u011fi, e\u011fitim durumu, \u00f6zel hayat\u0131 gibi detaylar onunla ilgili fikir sahibi olman\u0131z\u0131 ve bu i\u015fe uygun olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlaman\u0131z\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r; bu sayede daha kolay ve do\u011fru karar verebilirsiniz. Bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda edindi\u011finiz her bilgi, onun size ve ailenize uygun biri olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili ipu\u00e7lar\u0131 verecektir. Bu nedenle, ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeden itibaren bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n deneyimi, sa\u011fl\u0131k durumu, mesleki yeterlili\u011fi, ailesi, hayata bak\u0131\u015f\u0131 gibi konularda bilgi edinmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131 Aday\u0131n\u0131z Hakk\u0131nda Detaylar\u0131 Bilmek Neden \u00d6nemli?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7ocu\u011funuz sizin en k\u0131ymetliniz, hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birine b\u0131rakmak tedirgin edici gelebilir ve bu duygu hemen hemen her ailenin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 do\u011fal bir duygudur. Ancak bu tarz duygular\u0131 yo\u011fun ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda i\u015f hayat\u0131n\u0131zda da \u00f6zel hayat\u0131n\u0131zda da sorun ya\u015fayabilir, tam olarak yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131za konsantre olmayabilirsiniz. Bu nedenle bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yak\u0131ndan tan\u0131man\u0131z, ona g\u00fcven duyman\u0131z gerekir. Bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n hangi \u00f6zelliklerini g\u00f6zlemlemeniz gerekti\u011fini bilmek de sizin i\u00e7in bu s\u00fcreci daha k\u0131sa ve kolay hale getirecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"bak\u0131c\u0131
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 seven, \u015fefkatli, g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc, d\u00fcr\u00fcst, sorumluluk sahibi, pozitif ileti\u015fim kuran, psikolojik olarak mutlu ki\u015filer bak\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k mesle\u011fi i\u00e7in idealdir<\/strong>.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Ki\u015fisel \u00d6zellikleri <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131 se\u00e7iminde en \u00f6nemli kriterlerden biri de bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n sahip oldu\u011fu ki\u015fisel \u00f6zelliklerdir. Bak\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k, sab\u0131r ve \u00f6zveri gerektiren bir i\u015ftir; \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 seven, \u015fefkatli, g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc, d\u00fcr\u00fcst, sorumluluk sahibi, pozitif ileti\u015fim kuran, psikolojik olarak mutlu ki\u015filer bak\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k mesle\u011fi i\u00e7in idealdir. Bu nedenle bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda bilmeniz gereken en \u00f6nemli noktalardan biri de ki\u015fisel nitelikleridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n E\u011fitimi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n e\u011fitim durumu bilmeniz gereken en \u00f6nemli bilgilerdendir, \u00f6zellikle \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimi ya da sa\u011fl\u0131k gibi b\u00f6l\u00fcmlerde e\u011fitim alm\u0131\u015f ki\u015filer ideal bak\u0131c\u0131 adaylar\u0131 olabilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu ki\u015filer \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun hem bak\u0131m hem de geli\u015fimsel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n daha \u00e7ok fark\u0131ndad\u0131rlar ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun verdi\u011fi tepkileri, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 yorumlama konusunda daha ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131d\u0131rlar. \u00d6rne\u011fin; \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimi e\u011fitimi alm\u0131\u015f bir ki\u015fi, 2 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00f6fke n\u00f6betlerini, inatla\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 yaramazl\u0131k olarak nitelendirmek yerine geli\u015fimsel bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 oldu\u011funun fark\u0131ndad\u0131r. Bu durum kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda nas\u0131l bir tutum i\u00e7inde olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011finin fark\u0131ndad\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra geli\u015fiminde de bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n olumlu etkisi olsun istiyorsan\u0131z mutlaka e\u011fitim durumu ile ilgili bilgi sahibi olun. Kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 seminerler, e\u011fitimler, sertifika programlar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda bilgi edinin.
Bu konuda daha fazla bilgi almak isterseniz, “E\u011fitimli Bebek Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ile \u00c7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n 10 Art\u0131s\u0131”<\/a> yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 okuman\u0131z\u0131 tavsiye ederiz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Mesleki Deneyimi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n deneyimli olmas\u0131 size b\u00fcy\u00fck\nkolayl\u0131k sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r. Bebek\/\u00e7ocuk bak\u0131m\u0131 ile ilgili size rehber olmas\u0131n\u0131n\nyan\u0131 s\u0131ra, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla da daha kolay ba\u011f kuracakt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc deneyimli bir bak\u0131c\u0131\n\u00e7ocu\u011funuzun ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 bilir ve zaman\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131lamak konusunda daha\ntecr\u00fcbelidir. Di\u011fer taraftan bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n mesleki ge\u00e7mi\u015finin olmas\u0131, \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131\nyerlerden bilgi alman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar. Referanslara sahip ki\u015filere daha kolay\ng\u00fcvenebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"bak\u0131c\u0131
Bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yak\u0131ndan tan\u0131mak istiyorsan\u0131z i\u015fe ailesi ile tan\u0131\u015fmakla ba\u015flayabilirsiniz<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Aile Hayat\u0131<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yak\u0131ndan tan\u0131mak istiyorsan\u0131z i\u015fe ailesi ile tan\u0131\u015fmakla ba\u015flayabilirsiniz. Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yeri ve ailesini tan\u0131mak size pek \u00e7ok konuda ipucu verir. \u00d6rne\u011fin; \u00f6zellikle \u0130stanbul gibi b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015fehirlerde ula\u015f\u0131m b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sorundur. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yeri g\u00f6rmeniz, bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n evinize nas\u0131l gelece\u011fi hakk\u0131nda fikir sahibi olman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar; bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck detay \u00f6nemlidir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ge\u00e7 kalmas\u0131, sizin i\u015flerinizin de aksamas\u0131na neden olur. Di\u011fer taraftan \u00e7al\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fiyi ev ortam\u0131nda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde, ailesi ile nas\u0131l ileti\u015fim kurdu\u011fu, hayat tarz\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 gibi ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenirsiniz. Sizin evinizdeki tutumunu buradan yola \u00e7\u0131karak tahmin etmeniz zor olmayacakt\u0131r. Bu konu hakk\u0131nda daha detayl\u0131 bilgi almak i\u00e7in “Bebek Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n Ailesi ile Tan\u0131\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131 M\u0131?” <\/a>yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 okuman\u0131z\u0131 tavsiye ederiz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Sa\u011fl\u0131k Durumu <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve g\u00fcvenli\u011fi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bula\u015f\u0131c\u0131 ya da s\u00fcre\u011fen rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olan ki\u015fiye \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu emanet etti\u011finizde istenmeyen durumlarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabilirsiniz. \u00d6rne\u011fin; y\u00fcksek tansiyon, \u015feker gibi s\u00fcre\u011fen hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 olan ki\u015fi birden fenala\u015fabilir ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuz bir anda yaln\u0131z kalabilir. Di\u011fer taraftan kolayca bula\u015fan hastal\u0131\u011fa sahip ki\u015filerle temas etti\u011finde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzda da bu hastal\u0131klar olu\u015fabilir, bu nedenle bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131zla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde kapsaml\u0131 bir sa\u011fl\u0131k raporu istemelisiniz. Bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bedensel sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar, psikolojik durumunu da g\u00f6zlemlemelisiniz; \u00e7abuk sinirlenen, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 depresif ki\u015filer \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7in do\u011fru se\u00e7imler olmayabilir. Bundan dolay\u0131 bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n hem fiziksel olarak, hem de ruhsal olarak sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 oldu\u011fundan emin olun. Bu sayede hem bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 oldu\u011fundan emin olursunuz hem de uzun s\u00fcreli sizinle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in engel bir durum olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011finiz i\u00e7in rahat edersiniz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n mizac\u0131 kadar al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 da sizi ilgilendiren konulardand\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzla uzun s\u00fcre ge\u00e7irecek olan ki\u015finin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ve al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 elbette \u00e7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in do\u011fru ya da yanl\u0131\u015f model olacakt\u0131r. Bundan \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sigara al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131, sosyal medyada fazla zaman ge\u00e7irmesi, telefonla s\u0131k me\u015fgul olmas\u0131 gibi durumlar hem \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla iyi bir \u015fekilde ilgilenmesini engeller hem de \u00e7ocu\u011funuza do\u011fru bir rol model olmaz. Bu nedenle bak\u0131c\u0131 se\u00e7iminde bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131, \u00fcslubu, diksiyonu gibi detaylar hakk\u0131nda da bilgi sahibi olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"bak\u0131c\u0131
\u00c7ocuklar \u00e7ok enerjiktir ve onlar\u0131n bu hareketlili\u011fine ayak uydurabilecek ki\u015filerle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 tercih etmelisiniz<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Ya\u015f\u0131<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131 olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015facak ki\u015filerin aktif ve dinamik olmas\u0131 beklenir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar \u00e7ok enerjiktir ve onlar\u0131n bu hareketlili\u011fine ayak uydurabilecek ki\u015filerle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 tercih etmelisiniz, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bak\u0131c\u0131 tercihinizde, ya\u015f fakt\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc de g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurun. S\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 \u015fekilde hareket eden, \u00e7abuk yorulan ki\u015filer, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu durdurmak veya oyalamak i\u00e7in teknolojik aletlerle uzun s\u00fcreli vakit ge\u00e7irmesine g\u00f6z yumabilirler; bu da \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in riskli bir durum olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Mesle\u011fe Bak\u0131\u015f A\u00e7\u0131s\u0131<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ailelerin en s\u0131k kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunlardan biri de s\u0131k s\u0131k bak\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek zorunda kalmalar\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flarda \u00e7ocu\u011fa bakan ki\u015finin sabit biri olmas\u0131 ve de\u011fi\u015fmemesi, geli\u015fimsel olarak do\u011fru oland\u0131r. S\u0131k bak\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fiminde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzda g\u00fcven ve ba\u011flanma problemi g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir; a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kayg\u0131l\u0131, \u00f6fkeli, i\u00e7e kapan\u0131k davran\u0131\u015flar sergileyebilir, bu nedenle bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda \u00f6\u011frenmeniz gereken noktalardan biri de uzun s\u00fcreli sizinle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na engel bir durumunun olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Di\u011fer taraftan \u00e7al\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015finin mesle\u011fini sevmesi, i\u015fine sayg\u0131 duymas\u0131 da \u00f6nemlidir. Bu i\u015fi ge\u00e7ici s\u00fcre yapmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen, sadece maddi y\u00f6nden devam eden ki\u015filer uzun s\u00fcreli sizinle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmayacaklar\u0131 gibi verimli de olamayacaklard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir \u00d6nceki \u0130\u015finden Ayr\u0131lma Sebebi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n son i\u015finden neden ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorabilirsiniz. Yine \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015filerle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015febilir, bu yolla da bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda bilgi sahibi olabilirsiniz. S\u0131k i\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftiren, memnuniyetsiz ki\u015filerle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak hem sizi yoracak hem de \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu olumsuz etkileyecektir; bu nedenle i\u015f de\u011fi\u015fikliklerinin sebebini \u00f6\u011frenmek ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015filerden bilgi almak g\u00fcven duyman\u0131z a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bak\u0131c\u0131 Aday\u0131n\u0131z Hakk\u0131nda Bilgi Edinmek \u0130\u00e7in Sorman\u0131z Gereken Sorular<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u0130lk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme do\u011fru bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 bulmada en kilit noktad\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilk izlenim ve g\u00f6zlemlerinizle sizin ve bebe\u011finiz i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015fiyi bulman\u0131z m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131za soraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z sorular\u0131 \u00f6nceden haz\u0131rlay\u0131n ve beklentilerinizi, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, \u00f6demeyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz \u00fccreti, izin g\u00fcnlerini ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmede net olarak ifade edin. Sordu\u011funuz sorular, bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ki\u015fili\u011fini ve mesleki yeterlili\u011fini tan\u0131maya y\u00f6nelik olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bak\u0131c\u0131 aday\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kendini ifade etme \u015fekli, beden dili, sorular\u0131n\u0131za verdi\u011fi yan\u0131tlar\u0131n size samimi gelip gelmemesi dikkat etmeniz gereken en \u00f6nemli noktalard\u0131r. Bunun yan\u0131 s\u0131ra ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmede sorabilece\u011finiz baz\u0131 sorular \u015funlar olmal\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n