{"id":316,"date":"2018-09-12T16:24:55","date_gmt":"2018-09-12T16:24:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/?p=316"},"modified":"2020-01-31T17:21:28","modified_gmt":"2020-01-31T14:21:28","slug":"cocuk-bakiciniz-izindeyken-dikkat-etmeniz-gereken-5-sey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/makale\/cocuk-bakiciniz-izindeyken-dikkat-etmeniz-gereken-5-sey\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuk Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z \u0130zindeyken Dikkat Etmeniz Gereken 5 \u015eey"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z izindeyken dikkat etmeniz gereken noktalar\u0131 biliyor musunuz?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u0130\u015fte o g\u00fcn geldi \u00e7att\u0131. Bir y\u0131la yak\u0131n zamand\u0131r bebe\u011finize, \u00e7ocu\u011funuza ya da bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 annenize bakan sevgili bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z o c\u00fcmleyi kurdu: \u201cSibel Han\u0131m, ben y\u0131ll\u0131k iznimi kullanmak istiyorum.\u201d Her \u015fey dondu kald\u0131 de\u011fil mi? \u0130\u00e7inizden, \u201cNereden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 \u015fimdi bu?\u201d ya da \u201cO kadar oldu mu yaa?\u201d diyorsunuz ama bunu ona s\u00f6yleyemiyorsunuz. Ne diyece\u011finizi bilemiyor musunuz? Ne diyeceksiniz can\u0131m, izin her \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131n hakk\u0131 tabii. Ayr\u0131ca izin onun yenilenmesini, izinden d\u00f6nd\u00fckten sonra \u00e7ocu\u011funuza daha iyi bakmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar. Bu do\u011fal istekle, uzun s\u00fcre \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131ran her ebeveyn kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131yor ama baz\u0131s\u0131 bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n izinli oldu\u011fu s\u00fcreci y\u00f6netemiyor, \u00e7ocu\u011funun ve kendisnini hayat\u0131 alt\u00fcst oluyor<\/em>. Baz\u0131 ebeveynler ise \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 izinli oldu\u011funda bu s\u00fcreci iyi y\u00f6netebiliyor. Hatta bu ebeveynler, bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n olmamas\u0131n\u0131 f\u0131rsata \u00e7evirip \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na daha \u00e7ok zaman ay\u0131rabiliyorlar.<\/p>\n

1. Haz\u0131rl\u0131k Yap\u0131n<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 izne \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsa bak\u0131m\u0131n payda\u015flar\u0131 buna haz\u0131rl\u0131k yapmal\u0131d\u0131r. Yani, \u00e7ocu\u011funuz, siz ve \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 . \u00c7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in sizin taraf\u0131n\u0131zdan yap\u0131lacak haz\u0131rl\u0131k, duygusal olarak ba\u011fl\u0131 oldu\u011fu bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n bir s\u00fcre onun yan\u0131nda olamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, daha izin ba\u015flamadan uygun bir dille a\u00e7\u0131klamakt\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz tepki verirse tela\u015flanmay\u0131n. \u00c7ocuk, bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n ve sizin telkinlerinizle zaman i\u00e7inde yat\u0131\u015facak, bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye al\u0131\u015facakt\u0131r. E\u011fer bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z ya\u015fl\u0131 bir yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131za bak\u0131yorsa bu kabullenme s\u00fcreci daha zor olabilir. Yeti\u015fkin bir insan\u0131 duruma \u00e7ocuk kadar kolay al\u0131\u015ft\u0131ramayabilirsiniz. Filipinli bak\u0131c\u0131 gibi yabanc\u0131 \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorsan\u0131z, izninde \u00fclkesine gitme iste\u011fi olabilece\u011finden dolay\u0131 izin s\u00fcreci de olduk\u00e7a uzun olabilir. Bak\u0131lan ki\u015finin \u00f6zelli\u011fine g\u00f6re haz\u0131rl\u0131k s\u00fcreci de \u00e7e\u015fitlenir, bebek i\u00e7in farkl\u0131 ya\u015fl\u0131 i\u00e7in farkl\u0131 haz\u0131rl\u0131k gerekir. Bebe\u011finizin, \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ya da bak\u0131lan yeti\u015fkin ki\u015finin ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, kendinizi onun yerine koyarak bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 yokken nelere ihtiyac\u0131 olabilece\u011fini, nas\u0131l sorunlar ya\u015fayabilece\u011fi konusunda ak\u0131l y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

Sizin ve iznine haz\u0131rlanan bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n haz\u0131rlanma s\u00fcreci <\/em><\/strong>ortak i\u015fler. Bak\u0131c\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuza bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece her \u015feyi sizinle payla\u015fmam\u0131\u015f olabilir. Sevdi\u011fi bir ti\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcn yeri, korktu\u011fu bir \u015fey ya da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir yaralanma, bak\u0131c\u0131 izine ayr\u0131lmadan bunlarla ilgili olabildi\u011fince bilgilenin ki, \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 yokken bunlarla ilgili bir sorun oldu\u011funda ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bilesiniz.<\/p>\n

2. \u00c7ocuk Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 Acil Durumda Ula\u015f\u0131labilir Olmal\u0131d\u0131r<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Bir \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 izni, ba\u015fka bir i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131n izninden farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Acil durumlara her zaman haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc izne \u00e7\u0131ksa da acil durumlarda sorumluluklar\u0131 devam eder. Ancak baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131, ebeveynlerin izinleri s\u0131ras\u0131nda devaml\u0131 onlar\u0131 aramas\u0131ndan \u015fik\u00e2yet\u00e7idir. Bu \u015fik\u00e2yetlerinde hakl\u0131d\u0131rlar \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc izinlidirler ve o an \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131yorlard\u0131r. Herhangi bir sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zmekle y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fc de\u011fillerdir. Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n iznine sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterin, sa\u011fl\u0131k sorunu gibi ger\u00e7ekten acil olan \u015feylerin d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda onu aramay\u0131n. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun oyunca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 naz\u0131, bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 aray\u0131p ona yans\u0131tmay\u0131n. Bu bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n hakl\u0131 olarak i\u015finden, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzdan ve sizden so\u011fumas\u0131na neden olabilir.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 izin yaparken her \u015fey d\u00f6rt d\u00f6rtl\u00fck ilerlemeyebilir<\/strong>, oyunca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yerinde bulamamas\u0131, ba\u015fka bir oyuncakla yetinmesi ya da bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n verdi\u011fi konfora bir s\u00fcreli\u011fine sahip olmamak, \u00e7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in olgunla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 bir deneyim olacakt\u0131r.  Bak\u0131lan ya\u015fl\u0131lar ise size duygusal olarak bask\u0131 yapabilir: \u201c\u0130zin vermeyecektin\u201d, \u201cNe yap\u0131yor da izin istiyor?\u201d gibi c\u00fcmleler duyabilirsiniz. Anlay\u0131\u015fla kar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131n, asl\u0131nda ona o kadar al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ki onsuz iyi hissetmiyordur. \u0130zin alman\u0131n onun da hakk\u0131 oldu\u011fu konusunda ikna edici konu\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131z sonu\u00e7 verecektir.<\/p>\n

Yaln\u0131z tekrarlamakta yarar var, siz bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n iznine sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterirken onun da olu\u015facak acil durumlarda ileti\u015fim kurma iste\u011finize sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermesi laz\u0131m. Bir \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 acil durumda ula\u015f\u0131lamaz ise bu, ebeveyn taraf\u0131ndan kabul edilemez.<\/p>\n

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3. \u00c7ocuk Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z \u0130zindeyken Ge\u00e7ici Bir \u00c7ocuk Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 \u00c7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z izindeyken ge\u00e7ici bir \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak siz, \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ve izindeki bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan en iyi \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmd\u00fcr<\/em>. Sizin akl\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuzda kalmaz, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bak\u0131m ihtiyac\u0131 giderilir ve yeni bir insan tan\u0131m\u0131\u015f olur. Bu \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sosyalle\u015fmesi i\u00e7in de \u00e7ok yararl\u0131d\u0131r, izinden d\u00f6nen bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131na bamba\u015fka bir g\u00f6zle bakar, onunla ili\u015fkisi daha iyi olur. \u0130zindeki bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in bile faydal\u0131d\u0131r \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ge\u00e7ici bir bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funuza bakmas\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla duygusal ba\u011f\u0131 olan bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n i\u00e7ini rahatlat\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece izninde daha iyi dinlenebilir.<\/p>\n

Bir di\u011fer avantaj\u0131 \u015fudur: Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z izindeyken ba\u015fka bir \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak size yeni bir bak\u0131c\u0131 tan\u0131m\u0131 alternatifi sunar. Bu, ge\u00e7ici bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla nas\u0131l ileti\u015fim kurdu\u011funu, bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n iyi olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ona g\u00fcvenip g\u00fcvenemeyece\u011finizi g\u00f6zlemlemenizi sa\u011flar. E\u011fer bu bak\u0131c\u0131 da mevcut bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z gibi sizden tam puan al\u0131yorsa mevcut bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n i\u015ften ayr\u0131lma durumunda bir alternatifiniz vard\u0131r ve bu bir ebeveyn i\u00e7in i\u00e7 rahatlat\u0131c\u0131 bir durumdur. Bak\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131 i\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, i\u015f ve \u00f6zel hayatlar\u0131nda sorunlar ya\u015fayan ebeveynler, ke\u015fke zaman\u0131nda ba\u015fka bak\u0131c\u0131 tan\u0131ma \u015fans\u0131m olsayd\u0131, diyor. Bu f\u0131rsat\u0131 kullan\u0131n. Mevcut \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 i\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kmasa bile, hastalanabilir ya da yine k\u0131sa s\u00fcreli bak\u0131c\u0131 bulman\u0131z gerekebilir.<\/p>\n

Mevcut bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z izine \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsa buradan bir bak\u0131c\u0131 arayabilirsiniz.<\/a><\/p>\n

4. \u00c7ocuk Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 \u0130zindeyse F\u0131rsat\u0131 G\u00f6r\u00fcn<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Eveet, \u015fimdi yine gelelim o c\u00fcmleye: \u201cSibel han\u0131m, ben y\u0131ll\u0131k iznimi kullanmak istiyorum.\u201d O an ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z pani\u011fi tan\u0131mlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Peki, ya bu durumu g\u00fcl\u00fcc\u00fcklerle kar\u015f\u0131lasan\u0131z, \u201cTabii can\u0131m git, istedi\u011finde kadar kal hatta git gelme de, \u00e7ocu\u011fumla biraz vakit ge\u00e7ireyim!\u201d deseniz. \u015eaka tabii, git gelme, demeyin bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131za \ud83d\ude42 Ayr\u0131ca bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z olmas\u0131 demek \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla vakit ge\u00e7irmemeniz demek de\u011fil. \u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 varken de \u00e7ocu\u011funuza zaman ay\u0131r\u0131n ama son zamanlarda ona yeterince vakit ay\u0131ramad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp vicdan azab\u0131 \u00e7ekiyorsan\u0131z. O azab\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcne bir kova su d\u00f6kme f\u0131rsat\u0131 aya\u011f\u0131n\u0131za geldi: Bak\u0131c\u0131 iznini f\u0131rsata \u00e7evirmek<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 izne \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ebeveyn i\u00e7in en kayg\u0131 verici olan \u00e7ocu\u011funun ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n yeteri kadar kar\u015f\u0131lanamayaca\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Bu konuda biraz m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7i davran\u0131yoruz ve maddi ihtiya\u00e7lara \u00e7ok \u00f6nem veriyoruz. \u015eimdi \u00e7ocu\u011funuz a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bak\u0131n. Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in bug\u00fcn parka \u00e7\u0131kamad\u0131, kirli ti\u015f\u00f6rt giymek zorunda kald\u0131 vs. ama bug\u00fcn sizle daha \u00e7ok vakit ge\u00e7irdi. Bu \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in k\u00e2rl\u0131 bir de\u011fi\u015fimdir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun temel (ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman tek) ihtiyac\u0131 sevgidir, ebeveyn sevgisidir. \u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 izninin, sizi \u00e7ocu\u011funuza yeniden d\u00f6nd\u00fcrmesi i\u00e7in f\u0131rsat bilin. Onunla \u00e7imlerde yuvarlan\u0131n, kirli ti\u015f\u00f6rtlerle eve d\u00f6n\u00fcn ve biraz susuz kal\u0131n. Bak\u0131c\u0131m izine gitti\u011finde annemle \u015funlar\u0131 yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k diyebilece\u011fi an\u0131lar b\u0131rak\u0131n ona.<\/p>\n

5. Olanlar\u0131 \u0130zinden D\u00f6nen Bak\u0131c\u0131ya Anlat\u0131n<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Evet, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f vakti geldi! Birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn sonra mevcut \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 izinden d\u00f6necek. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te neler ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bir de\u011ferlendirin. Neler olumluydu, neler olumsuzdu. Ge\u00e7ici bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n numaras\u0131n\u0131 kaydettiniz mi? Ge\u00e7ici bak\u0131c\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmad\u0131ysan\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla ileti\u015fiminiz nas\u0131ld\u0131?<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 izne giderken \u00e7ocu\u011funuza bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcre\u00e7te sizin haberiniz olmayan \u015feyleri size anlatmas\u0131n\u0131 istemi\u015ftiniz. \u015eimdi s\u0131ra sizde. Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z izinden d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, hal hat\u0131r sormakla ba\u015flayan sohbetiniz, o yokken olan olaylar\u0131 ona anlatmakla devam etsin. Bu geri bildirim<\/strong><\/em> bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n iyi bir bak\u0131m sa\u011flamas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6nemlidir. Olanlar\u0131 birbirinize anlatman\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun geli\u015fimi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir. E\u011fer ge\u00e7ici \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131ysan\u0131z k\u0131sa da olsa bu bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n mevcut bak\u0131c\u0131 ile bilgi al\u0131\u015fveri\u015finde bulunmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131n. Neyse, izin s\u00fcreci bitti. Haydi, eski tempoya.<\/p>\n

Unutmay\u0131n, izninde yeterince dinlenen bir \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131, izinden d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde \u00e7ok daha verimli \u00e7al\u0131\u015facak, \u00e7ocu\u011funuza daha iyi bakacakt\u0131r.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00c7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z izindeyken dikkat etmeniz gereken noktalar\u0131 biliyor musunuz? \u0130\u015fte o g\u00fcn geldi \u00e7att\u0131. Bir y\u0131la yak\u0131n zamand\u0131r bebe\u011finize, \u00e7ocu\u011funuza ya da bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 annenize bakan sevgili bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z o c\u00fcmleyi…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":-1,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[102],"tags":[13],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/316"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=316"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/316\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5436,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/316\/revisions\/5436"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=316"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=316"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=316"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}