{"id":2463,"date":"2019-06-17T18:45:05","date_gmt":"2019-06-17T15:45:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/?p=2463"},"modified":"2020-02-07T17:04:06","modified_gmt":"2020-02-07T14:04:06","slug":"bakiciniz-sizin-icin-dogru-kisi-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/makale\/bakiciniz-sizin-icin-dogru-kisi-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z Sizin \u0130\u00e7in Do\u011fru Ki\u015fi Mi?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015fi mi? Ona ne kadar g\u00fcvenebilirsiniz? Bak\u0131c\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan her ailenin akl\u0131ndaki ilk soru budur. Do\u011fru ve g\u00fcvenilir ki\u015fiye ula\u015fmak bebe\u011finizin geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli oldu\u011fu kadar sizin de i\u00e7inizin rahat etmesi i\u00e7in son derece \u00f6nemlidir. Bu nedenle bak\u0131c\u0131 se\u00e7iminde titiz davranman\u0131z, bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onu g\u00f6zlemlemeniz ve birlikte zaman ge\u00e7irmeniz \u015f\u00fcphelerinizden kurtulman\u0131zda etkili olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Sizin ve \u00c7ocu\u011funuz \u0130\u00e7in Do\u011fru Bak\u0131c\u0131 Kim?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bak\u0131c\u0131 se\u00e7iminde en \u00f6nemli nokta sizin ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in do\u011fru bak\u0131c\u0131ya ula\u015fman\u0131zd\u0131r. Bunun i\u00e7in de bir bak\u0131c\u0131dan neler bekledi\u011finizi ve hangi \u00f6zelliklere sahip olmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011finizi, k\u0131sacas\u0131 kriterlerinizi belirlemelisiniz. Kriterlerinizi belirlerken iyi bir bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n sahip olmas\u0131 gereken \u00f6zellikleri bilmeniz, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/liste\/bebek-cocuk-bakicisi\">bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131<\/a> adaylar\u0131n\u0131zla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelere haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 gitmeniz, soraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z sorular\u0131 bilmeniz i\u015finizi kolayla\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/evdekibakicimstorage.blob.core.windows.net\/wordpress\/2019\/06\/photo-1530031665520-57dab9ab1ec9-1170x480.jpg\" alt=\"bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z sizin i\u00e7in \" class=\"wp-image-2542\" width=\"776\" height=\"318\"\/><figcaption><strong>Do\u011fru bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 bulmak i\u00e7in iyi bir bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n sahip olmas\u0131 gereken \u00f6zellikleri bilmelisiniz<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2>\u0130yi Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n Sahip Olmas\u0131 Gereken Genel \u00d6zellikler<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 seven<\/li><li>Deneyimli<\/li><li>\u00c7ocuk geli\u015fimi, ilk yard\u0131m gibi konularda bilgi sahibi<\/li><li>Sorumluluk sahibi<\/li><li>Sakin, sab\u0131rl\u0131 ve g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc<\/li><li>Bedenen ve ruhsal y\u00f6nden sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131<\/li><li>G\u00fcvenilir referanslara sahip<\/li><li>Temiz ve hijyen kurallar\u0131na uygun davranan<\/li><li>Pozitif ileti\u015fim kuran<\/li><li>Dinamik ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuza oyun arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapabilecek<\/li><li>So\u011fukkanl\u0131, yerinde m\u00fcdahalelerde bulunan<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2>Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla \u0130lgili Ne Zaman Kayg\u0131 Duymal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>En de\u011ferli varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ya da \u00e7ok az tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birine emanet etmek sizde kayg\u0131 olu\u015fturabilir. Bu do\u011fal bir durumdur. Pek \u00e7ok anne ilk ayr\u0131l\u0131kta kayg\u0131, su\u00e7luluk ve \u015f\u00fcphe duyabilir. Ancak uzun vadede bu duygular\u0131n\u0131zdan kurtulman\u0131z gerekir. Aksi takdirde kendinizi mutsuz hisseder, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u015flere odaklanamaz ve bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla sorun ya\u015famaya ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z. Kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131zda kurtulman\u0131z\u0131n en iyi yolu bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlemek ve tan\u0131makt\u0131r. Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zda \u015fu davran\u0131\u015flarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z \u015f\u00fcphe duyabilirsiniz:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/evdekibakicimstorage.blob.core.windows.net\/wordpress\/2019\/06\/photo-1515488042361-ee00e0ddd4e4-1170x480.jpg\" alt=\"bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z sizin i\u00e7in\" class=\"wp-image-2543\" width=\"756\" height=\"310\"\/><figcaption><strong>Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sizinle ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla pozitif ileti\u015fim kurmas\u0131 iyi bir ili\u015fkinin ilk \u015fart\u0131d\u0131r<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2>1-Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla \u0130leti\u015fim Kurmakta Zorlan\u0131yorsan\u0131z<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015fi olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili soru i\u015faretleriniz varsa ileti\u015fim kurma \u015feklini g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmelisiniz. Sizinle konu\u015furken g\u00f6z temas\u0131 kurmamas\u0131, ka\u00e7amak cevaplar vermesi, \u00e7abuk sinirlenmesi \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7in \u015f\u00fcphe uyand\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 durumlardand\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ile ilgili durumlar\u0131 sizinle payla\u015fmamas\u0131 da sorun ya\u015faman\u0131za neden olabilir. Bu nedenle<a href=\"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/liste\/bebek-cocuk-bakicisi\"> \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 <\/a>se\u00e7iminde pozitif ileti\u015fim kurabilen, sizi g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla ilgili sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u015fekilde bilgilendiren ki\u015filerle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 tercih etmelisiniz. Bunun yan\u0131 s\u0131ra bak\u0131c\u0131 se\u00e7iminde beden dili, kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 jest ve mimikler de sizin i\u00e7in ay\u0131rt edici olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>2-\u00c7ocu\u011funuz Huzursuz ve H\u0131r\u00e7\u0131nsa<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015fi mi?&#8221; sorusunun en \u00f6nemli cevab\u0131n\u0131 size \u00e7ocu\u011funuz verecektir. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzda aniden ba\u015f g\u00f6steren huzursuzluk, h\u0131r\u00e7\u0131nl\u0131k, a\u011flama ve \u00f6fke n\u00f6betleri i\u015flerin yolunda gitmedi\u011finin i\u015fareti olabilir. B\u00f6yle bir durum oldu\u011funda hemen bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla ilgili olumsuz bir yarg\u0131ya kap\u0131lmay\u0131n ancak g\u00f6zlem yapmay\u0131 da ihmal etmeyin. \u00d6zellikle hastal\u0131k d\u00f6nemlerinde \u00e7ocuklarda b\u00f6yle olumsuz belirtiler olabilir. Yine ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde sizden ayr\u0131l\u0131k s\u00fcre\u00e7lerini sanc\u0131l\u0131 bir \u015fekilde ge\u00e7iriyor olabilir. Bu nedenle \u00e7ocu\u011funuzdaki olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n sebebinin bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z kaynakl\u0131 olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamak i\u00e7in \u00f6nce di\u011fer etkenleri g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/evdekibakicimstorage.blob.core.windows.net\/wordpress\/2019\/06\/photo-1514486926376-b0ce3e56c145-1170x480.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2544\" width=\"748\" height=\"306\"\/><figcaption><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzda aniden geli\u015fen a\u011flama ve \u00f6fke n\u00f6betlerinin sebebinin bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zdan kaynaklan\u0131p kaynaklanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlemelisiniz<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2>3-Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Sa\u011fl\u0131k Durumu Sorunlar\u0131 <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131k problemleri varsa, \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ile ba\u015f ba\u015fa b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda i\u00e7iniz rahat etmeyebilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n s\u00fcre\u011fen bir hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 varsa \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun yan\u0131nda fenala\u015fmas\u0131, kriz ge\u00e7irmesi olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu durum \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve g\u00fcvenli\u011fi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan riskli bir durumdur. Bu nedenle bak\u0131c\u0131 se\u00e7iminde bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131k kontrollerinin yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131 sizin bu konuda kafan\u0131zdaki soru i\u015faretlerini \u00e7\u00f6zmenizde etkili olacakt\u0131r. Bu konu ile ilgili daha detayl\u0131 bilgi i\u00e7in &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/makale\/neden-bakici-saglik-tarama-testi-yaptirmalisiniz\/\">Neden Bak\u0131c\u0131 Sa\u011fl\u0131k Tarama Testi Yapt\u0131rmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/a> &#8221; ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131m\u0131za g\u00f6z atabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>4-Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Ya\u015f\u0131<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bak\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k enerji gerektiren bir i\u015ftir. Bu nedenle se\u00e7ece\u011finiz bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun enerjisine ayak uyduracak dinamik biri olmas\u0131 gerekir. \u0130leri ya\u015flarda \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun hareketlili\u011fine ayak uyduramayan bir <a href=\"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/liste\/bebek-cocuk-bakicisi\">bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 <\/a>onu oyalamak i\u00e7in tablet, televizyon gibi al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar olu\u015fmas\u0131na neden olabilir. Sizin akl\u0131n\u0131zda bununla ilgili \u015f\u00fcphe kalmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in dinamik bir bak\u0131c\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131z gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>5-Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n Psikolojik Durumu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bak\u0131c\u0131 se\u00e7iminde bedensel sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra psikolojik olarak da sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olmas\u0131na dikkat edilmesi gerekir. Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ruh halinin depresif olmas\u0131, mutsuz ve as\u0131k suratl\u0131 olmas\u0131, \u00e7abuk \u00f6fkelenmesi gibi durumlar\u0131 varsa \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu olumsuz etkileyece\u011fini unutmay\u0131n. Bu nedenle se\u00e7ece\u011finiz bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n her a\u00e7\u0131dan sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nemsemelisiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/evdekibakicimstorage.blob.core.windows.net\/wordpress\/2019\/06\/photo-1526634332515-d56c5fd16991-1170x480.jpg\" alt=\"bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z sizin i\u00e7in\" class=\"wp-image-2547\" width=\"774\" height=\"317\"\/><figcaption><strong>Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun en \u00f6nemli rol modeli olacakt\u0131r<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2>6-\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar \u00e7evrelerindeki en yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 model al\u0131rlar ve taklit ederler. Bak\u0131c\u0131lar da \u00e7ocuklar ge\u00e7irdikleri s\u00fcre g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcne al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n model ald\u0131klar\u0131 ki\u015filerdendir. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun oyunlar\u0131, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 sizin i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli ipu\u00e7lar\u0131d\u0131r. Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla ilgili \u015f\u00fcpheleriniz varsa \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun oyunlar\u0131n\u0131 ve taklitlerini g\u00f6zlemleyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla \u0130lgili \u015e\u00fcpheleriniz Varsa Kamera \u0130zleme Sistemi Kullanabilirsiniz<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla ilgili kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131zdan\/\u015f\u00fcphelerinizden kurtulam\u0131yorsan\u0131z, s\u00fcrekli \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun siz yokken ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 merak ediyorsan\u0131z; bak\u0131c\u0131 ve bebek izleme sistemi kullanabilirsiniz. Bu sistemi kullanmak istiyorsan\u0131z, bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla uygun bir dille bunu payla\u015fman\u0131z gerekir. Pek \u00e7ok bak\u0131c\u0131 bu sistemi kullanman\u0131za s\u0131cak bakacakt\u0131r. Ancak s\u00fcrekli bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131za m\u00fcdahale etmek, ele\u015ftirmek amac\u0131yla bu sistemi kullanman\u0131z sorun ya\u015faman\u0131za sebep olacakt\u0131r. Bebek ve bak\u0131c\u0131 izleme sisteminin art\u0131lar\u0131 ve \u00f6zellikleri ile ilgili detaylar i\u00e7in &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/makale\/bakici-ve-bebek-izleme-sistemi-hakkinda-her-sey\/\">Bak\u0131c\u0131 ve Bebek \u0130zleme Sistemi Hakk\u0131nda Her \u015eey<\/a>&#8221; ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 okuyabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla \u0130lgili Referanslar \u00d6nemlidir<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015fi mi de\u011fil mi anlamak i\u00e7in ba\u015fvuraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kaynaklardan biri de referanslard\u0131r. G\u00fcvenilir referanslara sahip bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla ilgili pek \u00e7ok bilgiye kolay yoldan ula\u015fabilir ve daha k\u0131sa zamanda g\u00fcven duyabilirsiniz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>G\u00fcvenilir Bak\u0131c\u0131 \u0130\u00e7in EvdekiBak\u0131c\u0131m<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Bak\u0131c\u0131 se\u00e7imi zor bir i\u015ftir. En de\u011ferli varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 emanet edece\u011finiz ki\u015finin g\u00fcvenilir olmas\u0131, ki\u015fisel ve mesleki anlamda belirli bir yeterlili\u011fe sahip olmas\u0131, sizin i\u00e7iniz rahat bir \u015fekilde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015fman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r. Uzman kadrosu ile <a href=\"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\">EvdekiBak\u0131c\u0131m<\/a> ailesi olarak sizin ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in do\u011fru ve g\u00fcvenilir bak\u0131c\u0131ya ula\u015fman\u0131zda yan\u0131n\u0131zda olmaktan mutluluk duyaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015fi mi? Ona ne kadar g\u00fcvenebilirsiniz? Bak\u0131c\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan her ailenin akl\u0131ndaki ilk soru budur. Do\u011fru ve g\u00fcvenilir ki\u015fiye ula\u015fmak bebe\u011finizin geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli oldu\u011fu kadar&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2549,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[102],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2463"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2463"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2463\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4526,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2463\/revisions\/4526"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2549"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2463"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2463"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2463"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}