{"id":1798,"date":"2019-05-02T11:38:50","date_gmt":"2019-05-02T08:38:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/?p=1798"},"modified":"2020-02-07T16:52:59","modified_gmt":"2020-02-07T13:52:59","slug":"bebek-bakicisi-fikri-aile-ile-nasil-paylasilmali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/makale\/bebek-bakicisi-fikri-aile-ile-nasil-paylasilmali\/","title":{"rendered":"Bebek Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 Fikri Aile \u0130le Nas\u0131l Payla\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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Bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 fikri<\/strong>, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde aile yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n giderek \u00e7ekirdek aileye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesi, annelerin de babalar kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda yer almas\u0131 nedeniyle her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn daha \u00e7ok \u00f6nem kazanmaktad\u0131r. Ancak aile b\u00fcy\u00fckleri \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bebe\u011fin bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 kendileri \u00fcstlenmeyi istemektedirler. Yabanc\u0131 birine bebe\u011fin emanet edilmesine \u015fiddetle kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131rlar. B\u00f6yle bir durumda ne yapman\u0131z gerekir? Aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin bebe\u011finize bakmas\u0131n\u0131n art\u0131lar\u0131 ve eksileri nelerdir? Bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n getirece\u011fi kolayl\u0131klar<\/em> neler olacakt\u0131r? Bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak istedi\u011finizde aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerine bu durumu nas\u0131l a\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? Bu sorular\u0131n ve daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131n cevab\u0131n\u0131 yaz\u0131m\u0131zda bulacaks\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bebe\u011finize Aile B\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin Bakmas\u0131n\u0131n Art\u0131 ve Eksileri Nelerdir?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bebe\u011finizi anneanne yada babaanne gibi aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne emanet etme fikri ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta size yak\u0131n gelebilir. Ku\u015fkusuz ki bebe\u011fin geli\u015fiminde aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6nemli etkileri olacakt\u0131r.Tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, bebe\u011finizi seven ve ilgiyle bakacak birinin olmas\u0131 aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin bak\u0131m i\u015fini \u00fcstlenmesi<\/em>nin olumlu taraflar\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin bak\u0131m i\u015fini \u00fcstlendi\u011finde destekleyici rol yerine y\u00f6netici rol\u00fcn\u00fc \u00fcstlenmeleri gibi olumsuz y\u00f6nlerini de unutmaman\u0131z gerekir. Bu noktada bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 fikri sizin i\u00e7in i\u015flerinizi kolayla\u015ft\u0131racak bir se\u00e7enek olacakt\u0131r. Bebe\u011fin bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlenen aile b\u00fcy\u00fckleri ile ya\u015fanacak baz\u0131 sorunlar \u015funlard\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"bebek
Aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin bebe\u011finizin bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlenmesinin art\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ve eksilerini g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

1-Sa\u011fl\u0131k Problemi ve Ya\u015f Fakt\u00f6r\u00fc<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin ya\u015f itibariyle sa\u011fl\u0131k problemleri ve s\u00fcre\u011fen hastal\u0131klar\u0131 varsa bu durum bebek bak\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7in riskli bir durumdur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bebe\u011finizle ba\u015f ba\u015fayken fenala\u015fmas\u0131, k\u00f6t\u00fc hissetmesi durumunda bebe\u011finiz yaln\u0131z kalacakt\u0131r. Bu durum bebe\u011finizin g\u00fcvenli\u011fi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan uygun de\u011fildir. Ayn\u0131 zamanda bebek bak\u0131m\u0131 enerji gerektiren bir i\u015ftir. \u0130leri ya\u015flardaki aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz bebe\u011finizin bak\u0131m\u0131 konusunda zorluk ya\u015fayabilir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2-Aile \u0130\u00e7i \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bebe\u011finizin bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz \u00fcstelendi\u011finde, kurallar ve s\u0131n\u0131rlar konusunda \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar ya\u015faman\u0131z ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz kurallar\u0131 kendi belirlemek isteyecek ve aran\u0131zdaki ili\u015fki bir g\u00fc\u00e7 sava\u015f\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fecektir. B\u00f6yle bir \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmada en b\u00fcy\u00fck zarar\u0131 bebe\u011finiz ya\u015fayacakt\u0131r. Aile b\u00fcy\u00fckleri bebe\u011fin bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlendi\u011finde, e\u015fler aras\u0131 problemler de s\u0131kl\u0131kla ya\u015fanmakta; e\u015fler aileleri ile kendi d\u00fczenleri aras\u0131nda kalmaktad\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3-A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 M\u00fcdahaleci Tav\u0131r<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Pek \u00e7ok ebeveyn, anne baba olsa da kendi evlad\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc kabul edemez. Bebe\u011fin bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlendi\u011finde a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 m\u00fcdahaleci, ele\u015ftirel yakla\u015fabilir ve anne-babay\u0131 ayr\u0131 bir birey olarak g\u00f6rmekte zorlanabilir. Bu noktada otorite problemleri ya\u015faman\u0131z, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun d\u00fczeninde tutarl\u0131l\u0131k yakalayamaman\u0131z ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Kendiniz anne-baba olmu\u015fken \u00e7ocuk muamelesi g\u00f6rmek ve tam olarak aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczle ayr\u0131\u015famamak sizi bir s\u00fcre sonra rahats\u0131z edecektir. Bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n bu konularda sizin y\u00f6nlendirmelerinize a\u00e7\u0131k olmas\u0131, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 bilmesi nedeniyle dad\u0131 fikri size daha yak\u0131n gelebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bebek Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 \u0130le \u00c7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n Sa\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131 Kolayl\u0131klar Nelerdir?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck art\u0131s\u0131 kendiniz i\u00e7in do\u011fru kriterleri belirleyerek, size uygun bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 se\u00e7me \u015fans\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n olmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130lk ba\u015fta tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birine bebe\u011finizi emanet etmek sizi korkutsa da, \u00f6zellikle daha \u00f6nce bebek bakm\u0131\u015f, bu konuda e\u011fitim alm\u0131\u015f ve referanslar\u0131 olan bir bak\u0131c\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda hayat\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ok kolayla\u015facakt\u0131r. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131na i\u00e7iniz rahat bir \u015fekilde d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f yapman\u0131zda do\u011fru bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 bulmak \u00f6nemli bir ad\u0131md\u0131r. G\u00fcvenilir ve arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00f6zelliklere uygun bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 bulmak i\u00e7in EvdekiBak\u0131c\u0131m<\/a> adresimizi ziyaret etmenizi ve geni\u015f bak\u0131c\u0131 yelpazemizden aileniz i\u00e7in do\u011fru bak\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 bulman\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6neririz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bebek Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 Fikri Aile B\u00fcy\u00fcklerine Nas\u0131l A\u00e7\u0131klanmal\u0131?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 fikri ilk olarak aile b\u00fcy\u00fckleri ile payla\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Neden bak\u0131c\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya karar verdi\u011finizi onlar\u0131 k\u0131rmadan a\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131, bebe\u011finizin hayat\u0131nda anneanne ve babaanne olarak \u00f6nemli bir rolleri oldu\u011funu vurgulamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bu noktada aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcze yetersizlik hissi ya\u015fatmaman\u0131z, onlar\u0131n da fikrini alman\u0131z bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 daha kolay benimsemelerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacakt\u0131r. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"bebek
Bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 fikri aile b\u00fcy\u00fckleri ile payla\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Bebek Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131nda Arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00d6zellikleri Aile B\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz \u0130le Payla\u015f\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn de bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ile ilgili kayg\u0131lar\u0131 olabilir. Bak\u0131c\u0131 konusundaki fikirlerini tarafs\u0131zca dinleyin ve bak\u0131c\u0131 ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n art\u0131lar\u0131ndan bahsedin. Nas\u0131l bir bak\u0131c\u0131 arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlat\u0131n ve bu konuda onlar\u0131n da \u00f6nerilerini al\u0131n. Bu s\u00fcrece ortak olmak, s\u00f6z sahibi olmak aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc rahatlatacakt\u0131r. Kendini d\u0131\u015flanmam\u0131\u015f hissedecektir. Ancak yine de bak\u0131c\u0131 se\u00e7iminde son karar\u0131n siz de oldu\u011funu vurgulay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bebek Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n Sorumluluklar\u0131 ve Evinizin Kurallar\u0131n\u0131 Aile B\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcze de A\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bebek bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belirledikten sonra aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinizle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bu noktada bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6rev ve sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 anneanne- babaanne ile de payla\u015fman\u0131z gerekecektir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6zellikle sizin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zamanlarda evinizi ziyaret eden aile b\u00fcy\u00fckleriniz bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6rev tan\u0131m\u0131nda olmayan sorumluluklar\u0131 yerine getirmesini bekleyebilir ve bu konuda bebek bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 zor durumda b\u0131rakabilir. Bu nedenle bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131zla ilgili kararlar\u0131 ve evinizle ilgili kurallar\u0131 net bir \u015fekilde belirleyip iki tarafa da a\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. B\u00f6ylece bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n arada kalmas\u0131n\u0131 ve akl\u0131n\u0131n kar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 engellemi\u015f olursunuz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bebek Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 \u0130le \u0130lgili Olumlu G\u00f6zlemlerinizi Aile B\u00fcy\u00fckleri \u0130le Payla\u015f\u0131n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bebek bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z ile ilgili sizi mutlu eden, olumlu g\u00f6zlemlerinizi aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinizle payla\u015f\u0131n. Bu sayede aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinizin de kayg\u0131lar\u0131 azalm\u0131\u015f olur ve bebek bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131za daha pozitif yakla\u015f\u0131rlar. Ayr\u0131ca bebek bak\u0131c\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ne kadar kolayla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fiminin bebe\u011finiz \u00fczerinde yarataca\u011f\u0131 olumsuz etkileri de a\u00e7\u0131klaman\u0131z yararl\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"bebek
\u0130yi bir bak\u0131c\u0131 bulmak aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn bu fikri kabullenmesini kolayla\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

\u0130yi Bir Bak\u0131c\u0131 Buldu\u011funuzda Aile B\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc \u0130kna Etmek Daha Kolay Olacakt\u0131r<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u0130yi bir bak\u0131c\u0131 bulmak sizin i\u00e7in i\u015fleri kolayla\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sizin akl\u0131n\u0131zda soru i\u015faretleri varken, aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinizi ikna etmeniz pek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayacakt\u0131r. Bu nedenle hem ki\u015filik olarak, hem de mesleki olarak g\u00fcvenebilece\u011finiz bir bak\u0131c\u0131 bulman\u0131z \u00f6nemlidir. Sakin, g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc, mesle\u011fini ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 seven, bebek bak\u0131m\u0131 konusunda bilgi sahibi, ileti\u015fime a\u00e7\u0131k olmas\u0131 bir bak\u0131c\u0131da olmas\u0131 gereken ba\u015fl\u0131ca \u00f6zelliklerdir. Do\u011fru ve g\u00fcvenilir bak\u0131c\u0131ya ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in EvdekiBak\u0131c\u0131m<\/a>‘\u0131n bebek bak\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131na g\u00f6z atman\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6neririz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bebek Bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 Fikri Size Do\u011fru Geliyorsa Kararl\u0131 Olun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Bebe\u011finizin sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in sizin yoklu\u011funuzda ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n zaman\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131, sevgi ve ilgi dolu bir ortamda b\u00fcy\u00fcmesi \u00f6nemlidir. Aile b\u00fcy\u00fckleri bu konuda istekli olsa da, bebe\u011finiz i\u00e7in en do\u011fru karar\u0131 vermeniz gerekti\u011fini unutmay\u0131n. E\u011fer bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ile bu s\u00fcrecin daha iyi olaca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131yorsan\u0131z, aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinizi k\u0131rmadan ve onlar\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131zdaki \u00f6nemini de vurgulayarak net bir \u015fekilde fikrinizi a\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve neden bu karar\u0131 verdi\u011finizi de samimi \u015fekilde payla\u015fman\u0131z etkili olacakt\u0131r. Bu noktada aile b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn de sizin de ortak paydan\u0131z\u0131n bebe\u011finizin mutlulu\u011fu ve huzuru oldu\u011funu unutmay\u0131n ve ailenizdeki di\u011fer \u00fcyelere de hat\u0131rlat\u0131n. Bebe\u011finiz i\u00e7in do\u011fru kararlar verebildi\u011finiz, mutlu keyifli bir bak\u0131c\u0131 belirleme s\u00fcreci ge\u00e7irmenizi dileriz…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bebek bak\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 fikri, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde aile yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n giderek \u00e7ekirdek aileye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesi, annelerin de babalar kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda yer almas\u0131 nedeniyle her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn daha \u00e7ok \u00f6nem kazanmaktad\u0131r. Ancak aile b\u00fcy\u00fckleri \u00e7o\u011fu…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1814,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[100],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1798"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1798"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1798\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4748,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1798\/revisions\/4748"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1814"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1798"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1798"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.evdekibakicim.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1798"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}